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As an addendum to this - prefacing your creepy, sexually explicit, unsolicited message with 'I hope you don't think this is too forward but...' is not some kind of get out of jail free card that nullifies the grossness of the communication. It merely indicates that you are very aware that the message is inappropriate, but you are just trying to preempt any sort of consequence with a disingenuous social nicety.
Anyways, I would like to reiterate for the billionth time that it is not the unpaid responsibility of women/femmefolk to be the ones to teach adult men manners. Those who disagree are welcome to an education session at my usual workshop/speaking engagement rates.