Complicit partners make genderfuckery so much easier.
MZ: Hi love. I missed you. How was your day?
RH: I bought a packer
MZ: Sorry? I didn't hear you.
RH: I bought a packer, ok? I went and bought one. Like I've been talking about.
MZ: Oh..! ... Are you wearing it now?
MZ: Can...can I touch it?
MZ: Oh...oh goodness. It feels so...mmmphs. (that is so hot)
RH: So...you're ok with it?
MZ: I love it!
RH: I'm glad. You should probably stop now thought?